Wednesday, January 16, 2008

Come together...right now....over me

i have a question and i promise i'm not trying to get all in people's business or do one of those tmi posts that some of you cringe over.

you can post comments anonymously if you like on this one.

i'm just curious about orgasms and how frequently they are achieved (in a couple situation) simultaneously? i've read the articles on how so many women rarely even reach orgasm, which saddens me to no end and would totally frustrate the hell out of me personally, so i'm thinking given that number simultaneous orgasms aren't that common.

yes? no?

7 comments:

Anonymous said...

It's been so long, I can't remember, although I don't think it has happened to me (simultaneously) very often. Me first!!

Anonymous said...

i usually manage one every time, occasionally two, but i wouldn't necessarily say they were simultaneous. but i have noticed that i do have more instances of it not happening now than when i was younger. that is a little disturbing. i think i just get distracted by stress and other life-related stuff.

creative kerfuffle said...

i don't know if i asked that correctly. my question is whether it is common for both people to cum at the exact same time?

Anonymous said...

oh! no you didn't ask that right. or i didn't read it right. i don't know if i have ever had that happen. if i have i don't remember it. unless you count mutual masturbating.

Anonymous said...

oh! no you didn't ask that right. or i didn't read it right. i don't know if i have ever had that happen. if i have i don't remember it. unless you count mutual masturbating.

Mrs. A. said...

Ok, I know I'm late to the party on this one, but it's too tempting to pass up --

Never have I achieved an orgasm "simultaneously" with the Mister. Many times we've achieved them close together (if I'm 'splaining that right) but never at the EXACT same moment.

(It's usually me first, then him because he wants to make sure I have all my fun first -- he's nice that way).
Yeah, I couldn't do the sex thing without the orgasms(s. That would be sad. Regardless of all the crap that's gone on here, that's one area of our life that's never been a problem, thank God.

Mrs. A

creative kerfuffle said...

though we have a small audience here i think it's probably a good sampling of the general population. i too always am first (and usually more than once) and the hubs quickly follows suit but once in awhile it does happen at the exact same moment.