here's what i've been reading

ok, i'm going to kink it up a bit by sharing with you some of the links i've been lurking on lately.

do you ever wander around the internet? read a blog, click through to someone else's blog from the comment section, scroll through their links, etc? well, i do from time to time and these are some of the things i've been finding. some i might actually start following, others were just like wtf?

waiter rant--sweet t reminded me of this blog. pretty interesting, good writing, not kinky.

word oyster--uh, the current post is about a threesome. high kink factor

fabulously out there i skimmed this one because she's german (though living in the us) not so kinky i don't think

sorted books project this is cool--you tell a short story by stacking book spines.

cool personality test--this has the coolest, seriously coolest, online tests evah. this takes you to the main site but all the tests are listed on the right--way fun!

tmi tuesday--tmi and tests--what's not to love; and, they aren't always sexual in nature. like today's--it's on virtues. eh.

it's sherendipity--cos she's pretty cool and i think she might start doing half nekkid thursdays.

views from the backrow--this is the guy that started half nekkid thursdays. and sherry, i just don't think i can do this : ) i thought about it and once i snap my feet, hands, eyes, ears, arms and legs, then what? : ) he he

the s spot--this one rates sex toys and it has a weekly cockblogging post--yes, pictures of the one eyed monsters : )

file under sex and marriage--this is where i found a quite interesting post on winning blow job techniques.

so, that should keep you happy for a little while unkay?

and here's my response to one of the tmi memes, though it's not today's cos that required a little more thought than i have to give right now.

1. What do you feel is the difference between sexy and erotic?
sexy is unintentional; erotic is intentional

2. Do you believe there is one right person (i.e. soul mate) for you out there in the world, or that there can be many different potential mates that you could live blissfully with?
i think one might be happy (for awhile) with anyone, but i think each of us has one person we are meant to be with forever; without that person you might exist, but you don't LIVE

3. Do you need to hear "I love you" or similar words on a regular basis from your partner?
hmmm, tough question. i did not grow up hearing this much so it was like a gift when given; when the hubs and i started dating and became serious and he said that on a regular basis i was skeptical; how could it MEAN anything if he said it all the time? but, i've come to need it. we say it (to each other and the kids) all the time; and i mean it all the time. i do need words, these and others, on a regular basis.
4. What feeling do you have the most difficulty expressing?
i'm pretty emotional and usually have a hard time hiding any of them; hard to express? purhaps empathy, sympathy--i mean i feel them and express them (i think) but you never know if what you're saying is helping really. like at funerals for example--you can feel sorrow for the family, but how do you really EXPRESS that?
5. What is worse - physical, mental or cyber cheating?
the hubs and i have discussed this at length over the years (though not cyber cos really? wtf is that?) physical, if it's a quick fuck is bad, but not as bad as an emotional/physical thing. that is the worst.